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Tuesday, 10 September 2013

How Should You Communicate With Philippine Women?

By Dani Choi


Despite all the bad press against them, Filipino women have remained one of the most desired women among foreign men who want to marry traditional women, with "traditional" meaning the woman taking of the house and the men working to support the wife.

Although there are thousands of men who are married to Filipinas, there are many men out there who are still in the searching stage, although they've been using Filipino dating sites for two years or more. If this has been your experience, it might be that you are communicating in a way that turns of women from the Philippines instead of attracting them to you.

In this article, we will let you in on some communication tips that you can take with when dating Filipino women online.

1. Don't be "mahangin"

Mahangin is a Filipino words to describe a man who is a braggart. It's also used to describe someone who is cocky. There's certainly no place for mahangin men in the hearts of Filipino women. But we think this also applies to all women regardless of where they're from. Women who want to get married want a man who has a good head on his shoulders and does not excessively invite attention to himself.

Really, on any given day, a Filipino woman will prefer a man who is down-to-earth and doesn't brag about who he is and what he's achieved in life.

2. Don't start the conversation with "poverty"

Despite what you may think, not all Filipino women are dirt poor. Many of then hold jobs and although their salaries might not be as high as women in the West (Filipinos typically earn $200 to $500 per month), it doesn't mean that they have less pride and self-respect. The biggest complaint Filipino women have about foreign men is that many assume that all women in the Philippines are dirt poor and just want someone who will save them from a bad financial situation.

3. Honesty should be practiced in moderation

If you're used to speaking your mind, you should be a little more careful. Filipinos are not used to feedback and will take it personally if you have a not so favorable opinion about the Philippines and Filipinos in general. There are other ways that you might be too honest, like telling a woman that she's not the only one you're dating online.

Although they know that foreign men don't date just one woman from the Philippines, Filipino women are, really, the jealous type and will be mad at you if you keep on talking about any other woman you're dating online. Although they're not the confrontational type, Filipinas will express their angry in another way - they might just stop communicating with you altogether.

In conclusion, if you haven't had luck finding a decent Filipina who could possibly become your wife, maybe it's time to examine how you're communicating with the Filipino women you meet online. Really, although they're very friendly to foreigners, they're still women from a different culture. You will want to be more careful in how you communicate.




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