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Sunday, 2 June 2013

Why Married Men and Women Date Online


Single people are not the only ones using online dating websites to find a date match. A small percentage of both married men and women use Internet dating services. But why would they do this? And if they are, is there anything you can or should do about it as their partner?
Before judging them, you should understand what their reasons may be and these could be harmless. Simply because someone in a relationship is a member of a dating website does not necessarily mean that they are cheating on you or have any intention of doing so.
Reasons Why Married Men or Women Use Dating Websites
The most common reason for someone in a relationship being a member of a website dating service is because they were doing it before you met them. They may have simply not cancelled their account because they likely forgot to or because they were more interested in YOU.
But you may think that because they are still paying membership fees that they would notice this and cancel the dating service. But what if the membership fees were paid yearly or the charge was simply overlooked? Neglecting to cancel any membership service is not uncommon. Or what if it was a free dating website they had not used for months?
Even if they may have exchanged messages with someone else, this still does not mean they are cheating on you. Harmless message exchanges in a dating forum does not prove that there is an actual affair happening.
But even so, stable relationships can become stale and motivate a man to confirm that he is still attractive to women. The same holds true for some women that seek only reassurance that they can still attract a man. This is almost the same thing as flirting, but online instead.
The Online Dating Line Married Men or Women Should not Cross
The line between being just curious, flirting and actually having an affair is different for any man or woman. Some may consider simply having the intention of signing up to an Internet dating website a violation of trust and become upset. Others may simply find such actions amusing, but still wonder why they had done this in the first place.
An important aspect is whether or not they have actually met an online date in person. If they have not actually done anything except to find out how many potential dates are available to them, then you should consider this as a signal regarding the state of your marriage or relationship. This is a warning flag that you should not ignore.
If you Suspect they are Dating Online
You have options and can either confront them about it, or completely ignore it. For many, ignoring it will be difficult and not achieve the emotional closure you may seek. But challenging them can also be hard, unless you know the right type of questions to ask.
No relationship problems can be resolved without communicating with each other and the major part of this is asking each other questions. One of those questions can be about why they are a member of a dating site, but this is likely only one of many to ask.
In spite of how angry you may possibly feel it is much easier to resolve such problems instead of just walking away from the situation. No one wins in any such scenario except lawyers and you should think very carefully before even considering this possibility.
What would you do if this were a medical or financial problem? Virtually everyone would seek the help of a professional that knows how to resolve such problems. Compared to what you may suffer from a separation or divorce, the cost is insignificant.
Emotional discomfort, financial stress, legal bills, custody issues, loss of love are just some of the problems you could face. Just ask any of your friends that have already been through these experiences.
You should ask that part of you that is angry right now if they really want that type of future. If you can see that there could be a chance to repair your relationship, then you owe it yourself to find a way to communicate. It is certainly far better than the alternative.
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Why Women Love Online Dating


It seems as if we are all searching for that special someone we can settle down and live happily ever after with.
And while that search can get frustrating, online dating has made it easier and easier to find "The One," especially for women.
Why, you may ask? Here are five reasons women love online dating. If these reasons don't convince you to join an online dating site now, then I don't know what will.
1. You don't have to worry about going on an awkward blind date.
We've all been on those awkward blind dates that don't go anywhere. Going on a blind date with someone your friend set you up with is completely different than going on a date with someone you've been talking to online for weeks.
When you are set up on a blind date, you never know what the person looks like, how they are going to treat you, and what you are going to do to try to escape the date if it is a disaster.
But going on a first date with someone you met online means you already know the person pretty well and have good date topics to keep the conversation going.
2. You can view a bunch of singles in your area within a matter of minutes.
If someone is not physically attractive to you, you can always move on in hopes of finding another.
Keep scrolling through your list of matches on the online dating site and review who is your top three.
3. You will never have to worry about spending time in a bar to meet someone.
This is going to cost a lot of money between drinks and cover charges. Instead, stay home and chat with singles online.
4. You will want to try out a couple of different dating websites.
This way, you can find the one that's right for you.
5. If you don't know which website is going to be one of the better ones, don't be afraid to ask some friends who have done online dating themselves.
This way, you will know firsthand whether or not this particular website is affordable, convenient to use and, most importantly, full of single guys.
Online dating has become the new way to meet people. Most people are so busy with working and going to school, they honestly don't have a lot of extra time when it comes to meeting people.
If you can use online dating as a tool to find the right one for you, you can really get to know someone before you meet them.
Make sure that you talk online a lot before you meet. This way, you can get a feel for them before you decide whether or not you want to meet.
If you do decide to meet, make sure that it is in a public place. You probably don't want to let your date know where you live at first.
Wait until you know whether or not you are going to hit it off.
Don't worry, you can do this. Just remember thousands of people have found love through online dating.
Cynthia Price is the managing editor of DatingAdvice.com, overseeing editorial content, social media engagement and media opportunities for the site.


Thursday, 25 April 2013

THE RULES OF ATTRACTION


In this Article Let us Focusing about "THE RULES OF ATTRACTION"

Do you wish you could attract exactly who you want?
Do you want to have more dates and more choices? Would you like to meet the person of your dreams? Perhaps you need to discover the rules of attraction.

There are essentially five rules that will bring you more of what you want: more choices, more love, and more
happiness. If you are looking for a relationship, concentrate on these rules of attraction. Following these rules puts you in control of your destiny.

1- look for signs of love. Change your negative picture that love does not exist. Since your thoughts become your reality, you need to look for signs of love between a man and a woman.

If you do not think love happens except in the movies, it may take you a while to see it in others. But it is out
there. You can start writing down the positive examples of love that you see. This will become your book of evidence that you can refer to when you get discouraged. These new examples become some of your new thoughts.

2- Believe that you will find love. If you believe that you can find your mate, you will. If you believe that you can't, you won't. Other people have found their soul mate...you can too.

3- Focus on what it is that you want. We get what we focus on. Think about what kind of relationship you would like to have. Dream big.

4- Make a list of the top ten qualities you would like to have in another. Whenever your thoughts and feelings go to hopeless, change your thoughts. Cut pictures out of a magazine that shows a man and a woman enjoying their time together, whether walking on a beach or sharing a candlelit dinner. Post these pictures in a place where you can see them often. When you look at them several times a day, see yourself in that picture.

5- Surround yourself with a vision of the relationship you want. When you look at pictures of couples having fun, or when you see others enjoying each other, imagine that you are doing the same. Feel it happening to you. See yourself having the relationship you have always wanted.

Probably the most important rule of attraction is to become the kind of person you want to find. You attract
who you are. What kind of person do you want to find? Are you that person? Get busy becoming the wonderful person you would like to share your life with. If you are depressed or despairing, get help.
Remember to fill yourself with positive energy by doing activities that you love. Sort out your finances, handle your past baggage, make your living environment something you are proud of that gives you peace and comfort, and surround yourself with friends and family members who support you. It is from this space that you create someone who will love you.

And finally, be a generous spirit...to yourself and to others. We find someone to love when we love ourselves in a kind and nurturing way. You deserve to love and be loved.
And remember...someone waits for you.
Now that we’ve addressed the basic issues and concerns in online dating, let’s look at some general dating
tips for seniors – both men and women!

ATTRACTING WOMEN

ATTRACTING MEN

SHOULD YOU DATE ONLINE



We Spoke in the last Article about:  WHAT EXACTLY IS ONLINE DATING?

Now the Next Question is: SHOULD YOU DATE ONLINE

Online dating isn’t just for young people.  We’ve told you that today there are many, many places online for vibrant, enthusiastic seniors to meet people.  They all offer different services and provide features that you may or may not like.  But in general, online dating can be a very positive experience for the single senior.
With an online dating service, there are lots of choices.

Not since high school or college will you find such a large number of potential dates and mates in one place. It can be heartening just to know that there are many single seniors out there who would love to find a loving partner.

Since there are so many people on the Internet dating scene, it should be enough proof that it does work, right?
Some people are a little iffy about putting themselves out to strangers, but with the advancing technology making the world smaller and smaller everyday, the word 'stranger' sometimes means nothing anymore.

Online dating sites give you a wide list of people to choose from.  You can choose them because you have shared interests, belong to the same city, or whatever. And because dating sites have this vast list, you have the liberty to skip and choose. This actually erases having to care for a few caterpillars before you reach butterflies, if you know what I mean.

Dating sites cater to different needs. There are some that focus on letting single women meet single men. Some filter according to  sexuality, religion, sex, or race -- the possibilities are endless. You name it; you bet there is something or someone out there who will fit just perfectly with what you're looking for.

The key to getting the most of your online dating site membership is to know what you want and what you're looking for, so you won't waste time trying to get to know people who turn out to be at the polar end of your character spectrum. Don't join a matchmaking site if you're just after the date's "fun" side. Don't join a Catholic site if you're Jewish. Things like that.

It’s relatively inexpensive. While there are many free chat rooms and online personal sites, you may want to invest in paying a small fee to meet people who are more serious about meeting a quality partner. Even if you pay $25 to $50 to join, it’s still cheaper than a senior cruise, and you don’t have to leave home.

Profiles are a fun way to learn about people. Sites that offer space to write personal profiles that include hobbies, special interests, political beliefs, dreams, goals and favorite activities will give you the most accurate idea of what a person is like, and will help you decide if you have enough in common to make a connection. 

It’s easy to connect. By exchanging email you get to know each other slowly, without the awkwardness that comes with first dates. If you choose to meet, you’ll already know a lot about each other, and that could help you both feel more comfortable.

There are, however, downfalls to dating online.  Some sites allow people to post their profiles and respond to others for free, but unfortunately these free sites often attract weirdoes or perverts. It’s important to check out the site carefully before you join. 

Plus, it can be risky when it comes to the people you will meet.  After all, there are people out there who lie.  You need to be cautious.  In an effort to get more responses, or in some cases to deliberately mislead, some people lie in their profiles. Don’t believe everything you read—if he or she sounds too good to be true, he or she probably is.

Overall, however, many people have found true love through online dating services.  You shouldn’t have to spend the rest of your life alone.  You deserve to live your life! 
There are people out there waiting to meet you.  It’s time for you to get started!  

THE ROMANCE AND SCIENCE OF KISSING


learn even more about how to enhance your romance life!

THE ROMANCE AND SCIENCE OF KISSING

What is that feeling people get from a good kiss that's so hard to explain? How does kissing come into play when being romantic?

Women often compare a good kiss to "melting butter" and like being "hit by a wave," according to a recent survey. Men often describe it as similar to "vibrations at a concert" or a "three pointer at the buzzer to win the NCAA basketball tournament," according to the same survey.

Experts have proven there is a lot of physiology behind the warm and fuzzy feelings that come from a good kiss. Feelings of romantic love, and kissing, stimulate the same type of brain activity as many sports, such as: parachuting, bungee jumping and distance running, for example.
These same types of activities cause the brain to experience a surge in norepinephrine, dopamine and phenylethylamine (or just PEA to some.) These neurotransmitters attach to pleasure receptors in the
brain and create feelings of euphoria, giddiness, elation and such.
So, next time you feel romantic and want to show your love to someone special, go for that wonderful kiss -- it will definitely leave a lasting impression!


A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous. ~ Ingrid Bergman.

ROMANCE FUNDAMENTALS -- PRIMARY FLIRTING

It is rather difficult to be romantic without first flirting.

What exactly is flirting and how can you adapt some flirting into your own romantic moods and play? To begin, you don’t want to be too aggressive. Start with very friendly gestures and once you have gotten those moves down, and then go for the romantic flirting!

Flirting is a frame of mind:
Be self-confident and do not be afraid to take risks.
Be enthusiastic about romance and be positive!

Start a sexy conversation:
Start with a simple, opening line by saying hello.
Talk about anything at all, whatever will get the romance going.

Enjoy yourself and have fun:
Be playful, light-hearted and above all, be spontaneous.
Show that you can be vulnerable.

Make good use of all props:
Always use a prop.
Props will get the conversation started naturally. They encourage conversation and others will want to start talking to you.
Great props are: pets, children, great jewelry, a wonderful scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite sports team’s emblem, an interesting book or magazine.

Play host:
Take the lead by taking on the role of host.
Do not be the passive person in waiting, but rather the lead.

Introduce yourself first:
Move closer to the person you want to meet and introduce yourself confidently!

Listen-up:
Everyone loves to be heard and when you are a good listener your
partner will be drawn to you.

Make bold eye contact:
Look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2- 4 seconds) and then look away. You don’t want to stare!

Pay a genuine compliment:
Your partner will be pleased and will warm up to you more.

Show a beautiful smile:
You will look so much more approachable. Everyone is attracted to a genuine and heartfelt, smile.
So there you go! These are all ground-breakers when wanting to approach someone with romance. We must always be mindful of the fundamentals.

When we just dive right in, unexpected, we can turn our loved one off. Go slow, a step at a time and feeling confident, approach with your best romance moves.

Tuesday, 23 April 2013

Innovative Ideas For Dates She Will Never Forget

Innovative Ideas For Dates She Will Never Forget



An overlooked approach to seduction is often found in meeting women through friends.  There are advantages found in getting set up by your buddies or colleagues, as well as improving your odds through social networking sites.

These often overlooked avenues are GREAT ways to smoothly transition from acquaintances to friendship

and hopefully, into potential lovers.

The key to doing that is by going on a DATE with her.  There are two basic ways to gradually lead her into this, namely: hanging out with her along with your mutual friend(s) AND continuing the interaction online through networking sites like Facebook.

However, it's cool if you're the kind of guy who likes to do cold approaches on total strangers in everyday places like bookstores, record bars, convenience stores and so on.  After all, there's more than one way to skin a cat.

Regardless of your chosen method of meeting women however, you obviously need to go out with her on an exclusive date if a relationship is your goal.

Personally, the dating method I recommend is a gradual, multi-tiered approach.  What I mean by that is I take things one step at a time, continuously gauging and ESCALATING a woman's interest little by little.

You see, a successful pursuit is the result of mastering the COURTSHIP PROCESS whose length depends upon a given woman's disposition.  If you plan your dates around this basic context, it won't be long until she'll be chasing after you like a lovesick puppy.

So let me break down the dating structure I've successfully adapted over the years.  Initially, you'll need to know her better in a one-on-one environment before taking things up a notch.

That's why your first date with her should be a RELAXED social affair.  There shouldn't be any pressure at all at this point (although a little sexual tension is fine and even expected), so keep things light and FUN.

You know the typical scene in a TV show where the leading lady is flustered over what to wear on the first date?  Don't put your woman in this predicament.

This cliche's has been done to death and you should be SHAKING THINGS UP with her.  If you want to break the mold, you're going to have to skip the typical romantic date routine and be INNOVATIVE.

How do you do this?  Simple instead of asking your lady out to an expensive restaurant, meet up with her at a casual public place like a coffee shop or a juice bar.

This is an excellent way to minimize the natural jitters that come with a first date (for BOTH you and her).  While you'll NEVER really get rid of all those fluttering butterflies, you'll have an easier time focusing on HER and have a good time all around.

After all, the point of going on a date is to ENJOY her company, and not treat it like it was a job interview where you have to prove yourself to her.  Don't fall into that NEEDY mindset.

Furthermore, innovative first dates like these happen to be VERY budget-friendly.  NOT that I'm saying you should be a cheapskate, but splurging right at the beginning screws up the courtship process.

This isn't about doing the pulling-out-all-the-stops' kind of stuff, but rather doing them at the RIGHT TIME.  In her mind, these things will have way more impact and value if they're given as a reward rather than something that doesn't need to be earned.

Besides, romance has a much easier time to blossom when you're not projecting any expectations.

(I'm not saying though that it's not possible for the sparks to fly so early on)




In case that it does, your lucky date will feel like it's the most NATURAL thing in the world because she wasn't FORCED into it.

Bottom line: avoid making a huge production out of the first date.

With that said however, going on a low-pressure date doesn't mean you shouldn't plant subtle hints of romance in her head.

But we'll save that for later right now, let's talk about setting up the first date.

I'm assuming at this point that you've already made initial contact with her (either through your friends or on your own) and have obtained that ever-important phone number.

Generally, it's advisable to call her back within a maximum of one week after that first encounter.  Wait any longer and the rapport that you have may FADE away into nothingness.

If at all possible, call her at HOME so she'll have a better chance of writing down the details.  Emails as well as voice and text messages are at risk of being accidentally deleted or overlooked.  Even calling her mobile isn't a good idea because she may be distracted or won't have anything to write with.

If there's one thing you should know about inviting her, it's the importance of having a DEFINITE PLAN with specific details (i.e. the time and place where YOU want to meet).  The worst way to do this is blurt something out like, Hey there, remember me?  Why don't we grab a bite at any place you wan't any time is good for me too.

Remember, women appreciate a guy with a firm masculine essence.  If you're gonna call her up and sound unsure, it's a HUGE giveaway that you're not really in control of your life.

Is she prejudging you?  You better believe it.  Don't tell me that your own brain isn't running in the background when you're checking out potential women to approach.

That's just the female mind at work, brother  sometimes, i's better to go with the flow than against it.

As much as you can, suggest a place you're already familiar with so you have the home court advantage.  Like I said, you might feel antsy anyway, so you might as well pick a comfortable spot.

I's only natural for anyone to have a sense of uneasiness when they're on unfamiliar ground.  Keep this at bay by inviting your girl somewhere you'd feel at home.

Keep in mind that your time and venue should be at a place convenient not just for her, but for you as well.  It's ok to be reasonably flexible about setting up a date - but not to the point where you have to travel half across town or cancel other important appointments just for her.

Once you've agreed to a date, it's time to run you through the basics.  As mentioned earlier, you're going to have to get a head start on creating romantic thoughts swirling in that brain of hers.

The cool thing about the casual's first date is that you can totally accomplish the said objective under the radar.  In such a relaxed context, she won't know what hit her!

So how do you create this effect?  Well, it's done through the little things.

When I say little, I'm referring to fleeting little indications that you'e into her.  You don't want to push her away by telegraphing TOO much interest early on, so you can do it in smaller, bite-sized chunks of subtlety.

When it comes to conversation, a woman will want to experience positive feelings while she's talking to you.  Making her feel good during a conversation is essential to generating major attraction.

The feminine essence is all about emotions; if you can trigger the right ones within your date, she'll pin them on you.  Play your cards right, and she'll inexplicably be feeling very good the next time she thinks about you.

In this case, being guilty by association is a GOOD thing.

Focus on upbeat topics that serve a springboard for other positive things to talk about later on.  For instance, try sharing interesting anecdotes.

A good way of doing this is by telling her about the time you got into a funny situation but came out of it OK.  The point here is to give her an idea that you're a relatively optimistic guy who can keep his cool and take the bad stuff in stride.

Her subconscious needs some assurance that you can handle life's curve balls because you'll eventually have to protect her from the same stuff later on.  It's simply her feminine side seeking the rock-steadiness of your masculinity.

So obviously you should skip any subjects that could bring down the good vibe.  Conversation no-no's include ex-partners, political affairs, anything related to bodily functions (not even as a joke), violence and any other negative stuff that will turn her off.

And if you really want to seal the deal, you can talk about romantic stuff without coming off as cheesy.  What I like to do is introduce mushy topics in a fairly indirect way.

(This also lays down the foundations for the latter stages of courtship, but anyway)

For instance, try bringing up a romantic situation you heard about from a friend and tell your date what YOU think about it.  After that, get her talking about the subject by asking for HER take on it.

Let me give you an example:"You know, I think it's weird in a cool way when two people just connect and sort of fall into their own little world.  I mean, one minute you're baring your souls to each other and then it's back to reality the next.  The transition can be jarring but exciting at the same time.  Have you ever felt like that?"

Of course, there are a hundred other questions you can pattern in the same way.  Get creative and think of people, places and situations which will help you think of something to ask her during your date.

Good conversationalists make it a point to look into the other person's eyes while she's talking.  It's OK for your gaze to be elsewhere as you're talking (while occasionally looking at her), but look into her eyes with a reassuring smile when it's her turn to speak.

Trust me - your undivided attention is one of the most powerful tools to win her over.  While you're at it, don't be stingy with the compliments.  LISTEN to what she has to say so you can appropriately praise something important to her.

When she says, "I'm more comfortable doing freelance work than being in an office all day", you say "That's cool, I've always admired women who can earn their keep on their OWN terms rather than marching to someone else's beat".

While the rest of the guys out there are giving compliments about her looks, throw her off by praising something OTHER than her body.  She'll appreciate you for it.

Remember, the general goal is to establish yourself as the guy that'll make her think"Hmm, this guy seems interesting" let's see what "happens"

You don't have to make her fall in love with you on the spot's you just have to lead her in that direction.

The things that we've talked about so far are meant to arouse this curiosity, not to mention keep you FAR away from the "friends zone".

Lastly, you'll want to keep the time on your first date to a maximum of one hour so you can wrap things up while the getting's good.  It may sound counter-intuitive to leave when the chemistry is at its peak, but think about the benefits of ending on a good note.

Try telling her, "Oh man, I d really like to stay longer, but I have an appointment to go to" maybe we can get together next week?"  When you introduce a time constraint, she'll savor your moments together and will actually be SAD to see you go.

How do you think that will affect your chances for a SECOND date?

When you call up your girl to ask her out, make sure you give her the impression that you have somewhere else to go after the date.  This way, she won't have to worry about things dragging on in case (heaven forbid) that the date doesn't go too well.

(No pressure, remember?)

Just to remind you of course, that you have every intention to have a good time with her.  You're only putting a time limit on the date so she'll WANT to see you after it ends.

I've advised a lot of my friends to go with this general dating plan and they've yielded very favorable results.

(The occasional flaky chick notwithstanding, of course  hey, life's funny like that sometimes!)

Speaking of great results, remember that this is only the opening act.  Once you've had a good feel of her personality and the things that she likes, you'll be able to zero in on what you can do the next time around.

Perhaps she needs a couple more of these quick coffee shop dates to really set the stage, but eventually you'll have enough leverage to take things more seriously.

Once you're ready to go to the next level, up the ante by putting together a bunch of activities you can do in the span of a day (as opposed to just an hour).  Your previous dates should give you the "intelligence" to help figure out what things you can do on your next "assignment".

If she's into everything art-related, then summon your inner James Bond and take her to the local museum or to a bookstore if a new title is coming out.  Then you could go to the park to grab a quick bite (better if you know about her favorite snack beforehand!).

Whatever you have planned, your follow-up dates should allow you both plenty of time to chill out and bond throughout the day.  If you plan things correctly, you'd be surprised how long even ONE day will seem to her.

Create enough noteworthy experiences in her mind, and she'll carry those memories for a long time to come.

Having said that, do your homework and have a backup plan ready to prevent any unforeseen factors from raining on your parade.  And if your date doesn't exactly go according to plan, don't flip out.

It's not cool to blow a gasket in front of her because she'll be looking to you for direction and initiative.  If you blow it off like it's no big deal, then she'll follow suit.

Well, that about does it for now.  By the way, you should take a look at this little gem of knowledge before you go:

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How To Meet Women Online Tips


How To Meet Women Online?!




If going to bars or clubs feels like a stab in the dark for you or fills you with dread, maybe it’s time you discovered the benefits of how to meet women online. Thanks to modern technology, you can widen your search for potential soulmates without braving the singles scene and offering women to buy them a drink.
How To Meet Women Online However, online dating can be confusing to guys who are new to this sort of thing. Fortunately, we’ve put together some helpful guidelines to meeting women online and making your way through this unfamiliar territory:
#1: Get Noticed
There’s plenty of fish in the cybersea, but you need the right bait to reel them in. If you want to distinguish yourself from thousands of other guys, you have to sell yourself by highlighting your best features. You might think that convincing women to date you is a hard sell, but it’s really not complicated to create a compelling online dating profile.
First, the most effective profile tells women that you’re a regular guy who’s looking for a healthy, well-balanced relationship that complements your life. Most girls are interested in someone like this, so make sure that you phrase your profile description that gives this general impression.
To do this, you can talk about the things you’re passionate about. Women like guys who are goal-driven; put some detail into the things you like to do (whether it’s your job or a hobby) and briefly mention any related milestones.
Another good selling point is having a clear idea of what you consider romantic. This is a bit of a tricky rope to walk since you want to create some positive imagery without sounding cheesy. To give you an idea, try something like this:
“When I think of an ideal date, it’s enjoying each other’s company while walking around the city and checking out the local culture. This means art museums, record shops, niche restaurants, music festivals and poetry reading at a coffee shop. As evening approaches, we could have a little picnic by the lake and if I’m lucky, get a kiss from my girl.”
#2: Take Things One Day At a Time
It’s ironic that while the internet is a great tool for dating, it can also work against you because of the culture of instant gratification that comes with it. Patience is still a virtue in the digital age, and this means you should avoid being too pushy with the girls who respond to you.
It’s important to remember that there’s another person on the other end who has feelings and needs time before meeting up in person. Don’t message her a hundred times a day – give her time to respond.
Also, try avoiding heavy or serious topics while chatting with her in the early stages. Keep things light and fun; otherwise, you could end up turning her off. Getting into past relationships or discussing religion and politics are a no-no. Those things can wait when you’ve gotten to know each other more (i.e. after you’ve actually dated).
#3: Be a Gentleman
One of the other downsides of the internet is the anonymity that makes it easier for people to be rude or downright nasty. Don’t be that guy.
You’re eventually going to meet these girls, so the basic rules of courtesy and manners still apply. While chatting, be mindful of grammar and capitalization. You’re not writing a thesis, but the way you talk online reflects the your style and attention to detail. Being able to talk without text speak might be a worthy point of difference!
Don’t be afraid to use humor since it’s a great way to break the ice and put her at ease. A good rule of thumb is avoiding overtly sexual jokes or making hurtful comments. Instead, lighthearted teasing works best because it shows you’re not afraid to push the envelope a bit while respecting her boundaries.
#4: Act With Abundance, Not Desperation
One of the things you should keep in mind when you meet girls online is that you have plenty of opportunities to find love. That’s not to say you should take any woman for granted, but it does help to remember that if it doesn’t work out with someone, it’s not the end of the world.
Being cool about getting rejected or left high and dry is the mark of a gentleman (remember the last tip!) and encourages an attitude of abundance. This keeps you from acting desperate around a woman or treating her like she’s the last one on the planet.
Instead, not betting everything on one single interaction makes you relaxed. As a result, you’ll become more attractive and less pushy, not to mention an all-around, good-natured guy.
#5: Above All, Use Common Sense
While you’re learning how to meet girls online, don’t forget that good judgment is just as important as it is in the real world. If you notice any red flags (unstable behavior, a “psycho” vibe or signs that you’re being scammed), then you’d best move on.
Online dating definitely has its advantages, but you still have to watch out for the human factor. Regardless of where you meet women, play it smart if your gut tells you something fishy is going on.
Internet dating is no longer the domain of the socially inept or desperate. Embracing technology and social networking is a valuable tool to add to your dating arsenal and meet women. With the right attitude and by following these guidelines, you will be able to make internet dating a capable and successful added dimension to your search for amazing women!
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Useful Websites to meet Women Online: AmoLatina, Anastasia, Elite Singles Fitness


Dating Women Online - Knowledgeable


Quality #10 – Knowledgeable 

 This brings me to my next point. The last trait that the ladies man has is “romantic intelligence.”
“Romantic intelligence” is a phrase I have come up with to define a person's dating skills. A man with a high
“romantic intelligence” will do better with women than a man with a low “romantic intelligence”.

For example, a nerd who has never talked to a woman besides his mother will have a very low romantic
intelligence, while a player who has been scoring women since he was 13 will have a very high romantic intelligence.
Just like any kind of intelligence, romantic intelligence needs to be nourished. The nourishment process is very linear. The sooner you pick up your dating skills, the sooner you’ll become successful with dating and women.

In the above-mentioned scenarios, the player has an obvious advantage over the nerd. Not because the player is better than the nerd genetically, but because he has been practicing his skills since he was a very young boy.

When the nerd was still playing video games in high school, the player was already talking to girls in the hallway and taking them out for ice-cream after school. When the nerd was spending all his time on getting
the best sword on an online game from the safety of his dorm room in college, the player was experimenting on how to get girls drunk.

Fast forward to today. The nerd is now 25 years old and he FINALLY wants to get a girlfriend. So he starts hitting the clubs and becomes extremely frustrated when women don’t even notice him. As for the player, he is actually an explayer now. After playing women for 7 years, he has finally decided to get involved in a long-term relationship. He’s engaged to be married to a woman he loves.

From 15 to 25, the player has ten more years of experience than the nerd. So is it really a big surprise that
the nerd is not as good as the player when it comes to getting girls?

In my experience as a dating coach, a man usually has to go through 3 stages: 
1) The Discovery Stage
2) The Experimentation Stage
3) The Serious Stage


Trouble will occur if you try to skip to the next stage before you’re ready. For example, if you have never dated before, it’s a bad idea to marry the first girl who shows interest in you. You may not agree with me because you’re madly in love and you think your first girlfriend is “the one” you want, but reality shows that your first love or high school sweetheart is often NOT the woman you’ll stay with for life.

Trouble will also occur if you get stuck at a certain stage without ever moving on. For example, a LOT of nerds in their 20’s and 30’s fall for the “seduction” type of programs out there. They seriously buy into the mottos of the pickup guru’s such as “never date a woman unless you have slept with her”, “always have more than one girlfriend”, and “never like a woman enough to be exclusive with her.” In my opinion, these guys are just trying to live out experiences they never experienced back in high school or
college.

This is okay - as long as you keep it under control and DO eventually move on. Feel free to date casually for awhile or maybe have a few casual one-night stands if you want - but if you want to remain in the “game” for more than a couple of years, then you’ve gotta look at your life seriously.

Chances are, you’re trying to pick up women in order to mend certain holes in your self-image. (I will probably get flamed by a lot of “pickup-artists” for saying this. But hey…I am here to spread the truth!)
 Here's the bottom line...

 As a Smart Dater, if you've started late, then you should accelerate your learning curve and "catch up".
Instead of spending a few years to figure out the game, you should do it a.s.a.p because you're already behind.

 Now...I want you to be honest with yourself. What stage are YOU at?

If you feel you still have quite a bit to catch-up, then you should download my "Smart Dating Course", because unless YOU make a COMMITMENT do something about your love life, it is NEVER going to change.

 If you're tired of being frustrated with your love life...if you hate being single and lonely...if you hate women not paying enough attention to you, then you should download my Meet Your Sweet Course RIGHT NOW at: http://MeetYourSweet.Com

 My course has helped literally thousands of men across the world to meet women, and I am certain it can help you too.




Dating Women online - Inviting


Quality #8 – Inviting 

 The ladies man loves attention. He loves bringing women (and men) into his own realm.
 He doesn’t follow. He invites.  Here’s a good analogy. In opera, it seems to the audience that the opera singer is sending blasts and blasts of powerful sound waves to them. But a good opera teacher
will tell you that when you’re singing, you should sing like you’re bringing the audience into YOUR world. You don’t try to sing to them. You sing to get them to come to you.

 Dating is the same. Don’t just send your energy to the woman sitting across the table. Instead, use your energy to draw her CLOSER to you. Invite her into your world so that she can be amazed by it!



Quality #9 – Willing To Bounce Back From 

Failure and Do What Others Refuse To Do  The ladies man is persistent. He does not mind rejection. He is strong enough to know that his self-identity should not be defined by a woman’s attitude towards him.
And in order to bounce back from rejection and achieve more success than the average chump, he’s willing to do what others refuse to do.


In this world, the more you do things that "unsuccessful" people refuse to do, the more success YOU
will have as a Smart Dater.
 For example, if the average guy refuses to flirt at all because he lacks the skill and has no motivation to learn, then all you have to do is to flirt A LOT more than he does if you want to get all the girls.  If they refuse to approach women who are beautiful, that's also good news for you. You can approach these
women yourself. (Guess who will get them?)
 If they refuse to expand their social circle, let them sit at home while you go out and meet friends.
 If they refuse to act like a challenge, GOOD FOR YOU! It will be so much easier for you to act like a challenge in front of women because other guys are so "easy".  If they refuse to act sexual, then act sexual and spark chemistry with all the girls they DON'T get.
 Whatever they refuse to do, YOU'll do it yourself, get it?

 The same concept also applies to life as well.  If other people are too lazy to get higher education, then you should go for it so you will stand out.  If other people are too lazy to make sales calls, then just call more people than they do.  If other people are too lazy to "go the extra mile", then just go the extra mile and you'll be the winner. Get it?


But don't forget that this rule works both ways. If successful people are doing things that you refuse to do
because of whatever excuses you have in your mind, then you're in trouble.  Because they are getting the success that you might have gotten for yourself if you had just tried.
 So...ask yourself...
 Compared to the guys that are REALLY great with women...
 Do you flirt as much?
 Do you experiment and fail as much as they do?
 Do you bounce back from failure like they do?
 Do you seek the knowledge to improve your game like they do? (Hint: Do you have my Meet Your Sweet Course?)



Women Dating Online - Physically Sexual


Quality #7 – Physically Sexual 

 The ladies man loves to express himself physically. He enjoys having physical contact with women and he feels comfortable using body contact to flirt with women.
 The “chump”, on the other hand, tends to believe that women will think he’s a pervert if he tries to make any
physical contact with them. He has been conditioned to think that he should hide whatever sexual or physical needs he has.
 Here’s a short quiz taken from the Smart Dating 
Course ( http://www.meetyoursweet.com ):


1) Can you look into a woman's eyes with desire without getting nervous and looking away in shame?
2) Can you make out with a woman without tensing up?
3) Can you walk around naked in front of a woman without feeling any embarrassment?
4) Can you admit to a woman that you are “shallow” and love women who are hot and beautiful?

If you have answered “no” to any of these questions, then you have a lot to work on.
Remember: If you want to be good with women, then you must first become comfortable with the idea with
being with a woman!

Here are two exercises for you to try: 

1) Be more physical with women from now on. It doesn’t mean you have to hit on them or touch them sexually. Just have more “casual”, friendly contacts with them. Be playful and get them into play wrestling
matches with you. Be a bit childish and poke them or pinch them lightly. Touch their elbows or knees when you talk. Cover their eyes from behind and get them to guess who you are.

2) Try to convey sexual communication through your eyes and body language instead of through words. Instead of asking for a kiss, stare down at her lips and then look into her eyes again. Instead of telling her she’s hot, let her catch you checking her out. Work on expressing yourself through your body language instead of through your words.

How to control your state when you meeting a woman

Quality #6 – Appears To Be In Control


Another quality of the ladies man is that he always appears to be in control. He could really be peeing his
pants inside, but to the outside world, he always has a big smile on his face.
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Of course, most of the time these players ARE in control. They control their state as much as they can to
appear in control and they try to stick to environments that “level out the playing field” for them as often as
possible.  This is why many players prefer picking up women in the nightclub. In the “real world”, the guy with the Porsche will get all the social proof. Inside, the guy with the most artificial social proof (such as knowing the D.J., hanging out with a bunch of hot girls on the dance floor, or wearing a pimped up outfit) will get the most women.

 Outside the club, the ladies man is a nobody.
Inside, he is the king of his own realm.

Of course, I am not condoning you to fake your way into a woman’s pants by building up fake social
proof. It will only hurt you in the long run. That’s why I want you to think about how you can
be a master of your own realm no matter where you go.  There are people who excel (or at least try their best) at whatever they do, and I want you to be one of them.

 That’s actually one of the good things about life. Most guys don’t bother to try hard. So if you try harder than most people, you will almost be guaranteed to be better than 75% of the population out there, which is already enough to score you a lot of brownie points. If you have a lot of dedication and try even harder, you will do even better than that.

 Here’s my environmental constant theory:
 A successful person will always try to make HIMSELF the “constant variable” in any environment. He understands that while his environment may change frequently, his attitude towards these different environments will always be the “constant” that remains the same.

 Here’s a good example: 
 If a man has a negative outlook on life, no matter what environment you put him in or what opportunities you
offer him, he’ll probably fail.
 But if he has a positive outlook on life, then he’ll survive in tough environments and do very well under good
conditions.

 Think about how this applies to your own state when you go out and meet women! Now if you are ready go and meet some Beautiful lady soon @ http://www.africabeauties.com.


Monday, 22 April 2013

How to Becoming The Kind of Guy Every Woman Wants


Quality #5 – Sociable 

Over the past few years, I have noticed a COMMON trait among men who are very successful with women.  Of all the "players" I have met and interviewed, they are almost always very sociable.
 And I don't mean they are just sociable with women.

They are sociable with EVERYONE they come across. No matter how "alpha" they are, they are NATURAL LEADERS that are CHARMISTIC and SOCIABLE. They can strike up a conversation with you in 10 seconds, no matter you're a hot model or just another guy sitting at the bar.  So...before you dream of becoming the kind of guy every woman wants, I want you to take a good look in the mirror and ask yourself the following questions: 

1) How sociable are you?
2) How often do you meet new friends?
3) How often do you talk to strangers?
4) How often do you raise your opinion at work or at school?
5) How easy is it for you to carry on a conversation with a stranger? Not with a hot woman - but with
ANY stranger?

 As I always say, your love life is merely a REFLECTION of your life in general. So if you aren't very
sociable with women, chances are, you're just not very sociable at all.

I know these words may sound harsh - but as you know, I always try to show reality, and reality often hurts.
 Here's my suggestion:
 Before you pursue your dreams of becoming the ladies man every woman wants, perhaps you should take a 
step back and think about how you can become a more SOCIABLE person first. Not just with women, but with EVERYBODY you meet. 

 Here are some practical tips on how you can become a more sociable person RIGHT NOW: 
 1) Go out with your friends more often.
 2) Invite your friends to do things with you.
3) Hang out with the "groups" at your workplace or school.
 4) Laugh at peoples’ jokes and make them feel  comfortable around you.
 5) Be naturally interested in other people.
 6) Say "thank you" when others compliment you.
 7) Don't be "too modest" when people center turn their attention on you. Thank them (rule  number six) and          compliment them back.
 8) Go out AT LEAST twice with your friends every week.

Tips on how to be Sensitive around Women


Quality #4 – Sensitive 

 Just because you are acting like a challenge does not mean you have to be insensitive. (It’s another misconception that many guys have.) Most ladies men out there are extremely sensitive to a woman’s needs. Even the abusive assholes and jerks know what emotional buttons they need to push in a woman to keep her attracted. (Think about it…if they didn’t, then the woman would just get fed up by all the
abuse and leave.)

 Here are some tips on how to be sensitive around women: 
1) Make her feel appreciated. Tease her and act like a challenge, but make her feel appreciated.

2) Give her a shoulder to cry on when she’s sad, without offering her any solution. Women usually aren’t looking for a solution when they come to you. They are looking for emotional support. (Warning: If she’s a
psycho, don’t stick around. Don’t try to “save” a woman!)
3) Learn to read body language.
4) Listen, listen, listen.
5) Appreciate her for who she is. (If you don’t, why are you still with her?)
6) Pause or be silent at the right moments. This will give the impression that you’re thinking.
7) Understand her primal needs. Not the idealized version of what love “should” be, but her primal needs.
8) At the same time, avoid her “slut defense” by understanding what she thinks of love.
(Tip: Agree with her words verbally, but communicate with her sexually!)
9) Make her really feel like a woman – without sucking up to her, of course.
10) Learn to read between the lines.
11) Always think about what women really want instead of what they say they want.
12) If you have no idea what any of this means, you need to get my 6-Part Attraction Secrets For Men "Introductory Course". so that I can show you everything from scratch.


Women Online Dating Tips - A Challenge


Quality #3 – A Challenge 

Of course, you should not mistaken the ladies man’s natural need for women as neediness. They are two different things. Having a need for women means you are acknowledging your natural desire for the fairer sex and making sex and romance parts of your daily routine.


 Being needy means you are performing needy actions and sucking up to women because you can’t risk losing one.

 See the difference? 
 The ladies man enjoys acting like a challenge. In addition, women enjoy “catching him” just as much as he
enjoys picking them up.

 Men who act like a challenge automatically intrigue women because: 
- They are less predictable.
- They refuse to be dominated by a woman’s beauty. (This automatically set them above other men.)
- They raise their social proof by acting like they are in demand. (To the human brain, a guy must be
   acting like a challenge because he “can.”)
- They lead women to take small steps, and each step solidifies the women’s interests in them.
  (“I must really like this guy if I am giving him a back rub…)
- They are more fun.
- They satisfy the woman’s primal need for wanting what she can’t have.

 One thing to remember about being a challenge is that it does NOT mean “acting aloof.”

 Some guys think that being a challenge means pulling back and acting like you don’t like women at all.
 WRONG.

 If you act aloof, then women are just going to not come to you at all. You’ll be what I call a “powerful loner.” (The guy who thinks he’s all great but never gets any girl.)
 Instead of acting aloof, think of being a challenge as like playing with a cat. You throw her a little wool ball and then PULL IT BACK to make her chase after it. Then you bonk her on the head with the ball.
 In “dating terms”, you throw her a compliment and then tease her when she responds.
 Or you “barter” for a kiss when she asks you for a favor…
 You bait and then you pull. You bait and then you pull.
Rinse and repeat, get it?


“Truly” Sees Romance (Or Sex) As an Important Part of His Life


Quality #2 – “Truly” Sees Romance (Or Sex) As an Important Part of His Life 


 The second quality of the ladies man is that he sees romance (or sex) as a vital part of his life. He doesn’t just see it as something he “wants”. He sees it as something that he needs to allocate time and resources for. The ladies man sleeps, eats, works, and romances women. Spending quality time with women is just another routine to him.
 A lot of readers email me to tell me how badly they want a girlfriend. But at the same time, they are unwilling to give up work, studying, or video games for their social or love lives.
 Kinda ironic, isn’t it?
 Yes. It’s very important to work hard.
 Yes. It’s also very important to study hard.

 But playing hard is important too if you want to become a well-rounded person. And it’s especially important if you would like to become a ladies man.  In my opinion, life is all about priorities. Everyone has
the same amount of time in a day. Successful people get more done and achieve more than ordinary people because they manage their time better.

 Work, study, and video games will always expand to take up as much time as you give them. This is why you must learn to block time off for other activities.
 Make it a habit to go out at least one night a week with your friends, and make it a habit to ‘hang out” once a week with a different woman (even as friends) for coffee or lunch. Everyone can afford to invest that much time in a potential love life.


Make these dates something for you to look forward to. You may even end up increasing your productivity
because you’ll be working harder before the date and getting more done!
 And if you are REALLY serious about meeting women, then you should invest a LOT of time and resources
into improving your skills.

 REALLY put yourself into the shoes of a ladies man and go out ALL the time. Flirt with EVERY woman you meet.
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Use my “truth or dare technique” (from the Smart Dating Course) and see how far you can go with each
woman. Go out there and crash and burn as much as possible.
 Make these actions part of your daily routine, as if flirting with women is just something that you need to do
because it’s so fun. Heck. Be a little bit obsessed with practicing your skills. Obsession has made many successful men become good at whatever they do – including picking up women.

 Make sex and romance important parts of your life (not your fantasy life but your REAL life), and you will live like a Don Juan eventually.


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Women Online Dating - Playful and Flirty


Quality #1 – Playful and Flirty 


The first quality that you need before you can become a ladies man is playfulness. I have not yet met a player who isn’t playful with women.
More often than not, guys who are not good with women are guys who are “too serious” when they’re around women.
 If you’re one of these guys…well…there’s only one thing I can say to you, “STOP BEING SO DAMN SERIOUS, DARNIT!”

To put it bluntly… 
If you’re playful, women will think you’re cool; if you’re too serious, women are going to think you are a “tool.”  It doesn’t matter if it’s part of your personality to be “serious.” There are times and situations in life when you have to be very serious, and there are also times and situations when you have to be very playful.
 I’ll give you an example. If you were working as an air traffic controller, I would tell you to be very serious with your job and be very cautious at work.
 But let’s say you’re just out on a first date with a woman after work. Then I would tell you to let go and be very playful with her!

 Here’s the bottom line: 
 If you’re too serious with flirting, then you’re not flirting at all. Even if you follow every step I’ve told you to do and say every line I’ve taught you to say, you’re not actually flirting. To become a Smart Flirter, you must let go of your worries and become more playful!

Here are some examples of how you can be playful with a woman. 
1) Poke her.
2) Tackle her.
3) Lift her up.
4) Challenge her to arm wrestling.
5) Play thumb war with her.
6) Give her a piggy back ride...and run as fast as you can.
7) Throw something tiny at her. Then look away and whistle as she looks at you.
8) Steal something from her and make her wrestle you to get it back.
9) Twirl her around.
10) Pinch her nose and shake it like she's a plush toy.

 Use these sample techniques as a blueprint for coming up with your own techniques. Remember that the
key is to be playful and focus on having fun instead of "getting results!"
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