What if heartbreak was your best healer?
What if you took a little bit of time to leap into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that wiped out you, it really helped in creating you?
These are tricky questions to ask yourself. However, they're incredibly rewarding. Many have had their hearts ripped out in some way and honestly there is not any worse feeling that you can go through. You're feeling totally horrible for what seems to be a lifetime and the feelings of loss never really seem to go away. If we keep playing on the grand field of life, we will suffer the inescapable fact that our hearts will break now and then.
But what if, when heartbreak comes to us, we allow it to show us where we actually must do deep interpersonal work? How do we take the pain of loss and be able to create something attractive with it?
I'm not suggesting that we should attempt to ascend above our discomfort, but rather as an alternative try to take our own discomfort and birth something positive and lovely out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet simultaneously one that would make an incredible difference when we face deep adversity.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take all that agony inside and change it into something else. Try writing, painting, drawing, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what's really inside you instead of letting it eat you day by day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it. You never know what may happen.
What if you took a little bit of time to leap into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that wiped out you, it really helped in creating you?
These are tricky questions to ask yourself. However, they're incredibly rewarding. Many have had their hearts ripped out in some way and honestly there is not any worse feeling that you can go through. You're feeling totally horrible for what seems to be a lifetime and the feelings of loss never really seem to go away. If we keep playing on the grand field of life, we will suffer the inescapable fact that our hearts will break now and then.
But what if, when heartbreak comes to us, we allow it to show us where we actually must do deep interpersonal work? How do we take the pain of loss and be able to create something attractive with it?
I'm not suggesting that we should attempt to ascend above our discomfort, but rather as an alternative try to take our own discomfort and birth something positive and lovely out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet simultaneously one that would make an incredible difference when we face deep adversity.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take all that agony inside and change it into something else. Try writing, painting, drawing, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what's really inside you instead of letting it eat you day by day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it. You never know what may happen.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Going through a rough patch or just had your heart broken? Yeah, that can be pretty darn tough. I put together some heartbreak quotes to help you out in this situation.
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