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Friday, 24 January 2014

How You Can Use Negative Thoughts With The Law Of Attraction

By Andrew Tatiana


The general premise of the Law of Attraction is to think good, positive thoughts about how you want your life to be and eventually your life will become what you think about. While all of this is well and good, how many of us can truly say that we are able to continually be positive and optimistic on a regular basis. Some of us simply aren't created this way. Does this mean that we are doomed to live a life based upon our negative thoughts and fears?

Negative thoughts are going to come. We are all human, after all. Some of us tend to have a more negative personality. Some of us are simply filled with more fears than others. Not all of us are brave and positive about the direction our life is moving. We have fears about everything. Even the idea of becoming wealthy might fill you with fear. What if your friends and family secretly become jealousy because you're wealthy? What if you change because of wealth? We might even have fears and negative thoughts surrounding success in many aspects of our life that are holding us back. What can we do with these fears and worries? Is it possible to use these fears to help us achieve our goals with the help of the Law of Attraction?

The Law of Attraction states that any thought backed by strong emotions can become manifested in our reality very quickly. For most people, this strong emotion is desire, passion, love or some other positive emotion. It is also true that thoughts backed by fear, which is a very powerful emotion, can come true very quickly. You may have seen this happen in your own life or the life of those around you. As they focus on avoiding something terrible in their life, that very things that they fear comes true. That picture in your mind filled with worry often comes true more quickly than something simple that you might try to manifest using positive thoughts and emotions. The universe and the Law of Attraction don't understand positive and negative. All they know is that you have a thought backed by some very powerful emotions.

The trick is to use these powerful negative emotions which are already running through your head. How can you turn things around and allow your fear to propel you towards those things that you know will make your life better? Even though you know that your fears might not be based upon reality, when these emotions wage war on your mind and your life, it might be easier to use them instead of denying or fighting with your emotions. When you're having a bad day and you're feeling down, why not allow those thoughts free reign and test out this theory?

An example might be if you had a goal to bring love into your life. Perhaps you have someone in mind that you are attracted to. You are struggling to be positive about this person falling in love with you. You are filled with doubts and it's easier for you to think about all the reasons why things might not work out. No matter how hard you try, you are plagued by thoughts of rejection and loneliness.

To turn these negative thoughts in your favor you could create a frightening scenario where the person that you love falls in love with you but you're not ready. Maybe your living situation isn't what you wish it would be. Perhaps you are afraid that once the relationship is in full swing that you won't have time for yourself. Maybe you could worry about the financial ramifications of a romantic relationship and the frustration that might occur if you were in a relationship. Use these fears and worries to put emotion behind your thoughts. Allow those powerful negative emotions to cloud the actual goal so your aren't worrying about the goal so much as the collateral damage that will occur when your dream does become reality.

Surely, your goal is to make your dreams come true using the Law of Attraction and positive thoughts. You should still stick to that regimen when you're feeling positive and optimistic. Continue to spend time visualizing and meditating about your dreams and goals but for those times when negative thoughts might make you feel like you can't focus, turn them around. Try using those negative thoughts or those bad days to continue to propel you towards your goals. Stop beating yourself up because you feel somehow unfit or weak. We all have bad days and negative thoughts. Life is all about how we harness those thoughts and make them work for us instead of against us to bring into reality the life that we truly deserve.




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