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Saturday, 24 August 2013

How To Seduce Women: The Prerequisites

By J. Ryu


Arguably the most important step in Picking Up women is the cold approach. To most men, going up to women they don't know with the intention of picking them up is probably the scariest thing you can do, scarier even than public speaking. To do this, you need a different type of courage then wrestling crocodiles or getting into a fist fight with a bigger man.

The bad news is, the cold approach is one of the most nerve wracking things you can do. What's worse if if you somehow find the courage to approach a attractive woman, the consequent stare, snort, and rejection will effectively devastate your pride and will to live.

Good news is this approach anxiety can be minimized and conquered through practice. With enough repetition, even the pain of rejection will start to lessen until eventually, you won't get rejected at all.

How To Pick Up Women: The Prerequisites

1) Confidence

The most important element to attracting women that all seduction gurus, relationship experts, and pickup artists agree on is confidence. The biggest quality that attracts a woman to a man is not how he looks, his dashing personality, or even heaps of cash, it is confidence.

A man with self-esteem, power, and money will naturally exude confidence. Therefore, if a man exudes confidence, it is implied that he has money, power, and self-esteem. It is this implication and not the actuality that will initially attract a woman. Because how will she know how much money you have upon first meeting besides the way you present yourself?

The first prerequisite to approaching a woman is to build up confidence, and lots of it.

2) Grooming

If you dress like a slob, look like a slob, and groom like a slob, then you will feel like a slob, act like a slob, and be generally unattractive to women. Any man, with proper effort, exercise, fashion, and grooming can be presentable. Just like if an average looking woman takes care of herself really well, like in those makeover shows, the effect is dramatic.

This includes gym time, showers, deodorant, shaving, shopping, polishing, haircuts, laundry, and most of all, effort. There is a certain magic to looking good. If you look your best, you feel good. And if you feel good, then you feel confident. If you're confident, you give out a special something that makes you very attractive.

This doesn't just apply to when you're on a date either. Always look good because you don't know when the opportunity will present itself.

"Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity." - Lucius Annaeus Seneca

3) Communication Skills

You manage to strike up a conversation with a beautiful woman without getting laughed or chased away. You guys are laughing, having a good time, and making a connection, when suddenly, you run out of things to talk about. She looks at you first with expectation, then with disappointment, then with disinterest, finally followed by the dreaded back turn. Game over...

The seduction game resembles a sales pitch, you have a limited amount of time to sell yourself, and if you don't make an excellent pitch in that time, you do not make the sale and you go home alone. Even if you do not have the talent of blabbery, you could learn this important ability.

But you can't take a magic tablet to magically learn this ability, it takes effort and constant method. If you're an introvert and don't really like chatting with unfamiliar people, you simply have to learn to "turn it on" when the circumstance calls for it.

Practice striking up innocent conversations with random people throughout the day and this will develop your confidence for when it matters.

4) Body Language

55 % of communication is visual meaning that over one-half of the things we say to others, we say with our body. Also when you're saying something, your body could be communicating another thing.

Knowledge of body language is critical because women have a strong sense of intuition, what we refer to as a BS meter. So if your words are badass but your body is saying you're scared, women will pick up on that and game over.

Someone versed in body language can observe a man attempting to seduce a lady and predict whether he's going to be successful or not. He can likewise assess the interest level of the woman and the actual quality of the man.

Yes, this is a lot of information and a lot of skills to master, but like any skill, it will take practice and effort. And like any relevant skill, there is no shortcuts, the journey is hard, but the rewards are great.




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