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Friday, 30 August 2013

How To Meet A Woman On The Street

By J. Ryu


You're walking down the street, minding your very own business, when there she is, an extremely cute girl strolling along looking at her iphone. You're convinced she is the girl of your dreams and possible future girlfriend and if you let her walk on and away from your life, you'll be missing out on the opportunity of a lifetime. What do you do? What can you do?

Arguably, meeting a woman cold, off the street is among the hardest things to do. A girl on the street feels open and vulnerable so if a strange man comes up, her guard will be up. Have you ever had a complete stranger walk up to you on the street? Feels odd doesn't it? Should you quit and let her walk out of your life? Hell no !

1. Eye contact

As soon as you see "the one," take action! A street approach has to feel spontaneous to the woman, not like a rehearsed canned pick up or they will feel uncomfortable. Make eye contact as soon as possible and keep your eyes locked, too, so she knows that it wasn't just chance that your eyes met.

As soon as eye contact has been made, be sure she knows you are trying to get her attention. Wave, nod, something clearly attention getting. You want to establish contact before you approach which helps the woman prepare mentally for a stranger accosting them.

2. Open Body Language

Upon approaching her, put on an innocent smile! A smile is welcoming, infectious, communicates openness and innocence and will help lower her guard. Utilize open body language! Ensure your body language is not confrontational and direct but reacting to her reactions toward you.

Integrate hand gestures into your conversation. This will not only help her to follow your conversation if you're someplace busy, but it will also keep her focus on you. On the street, it will be easy for her to be distracted, particularly if she isn't totally convinced it was worth stopping to talk.

Use your hands to keep her eyes focused on you. Utilizing your hands will also show confidence. Do not keep them crossed with your shoulders slouched. Make sure it is clear you know exactly what you want and you think wants it too.

3. The Game

On a street pick up you want to keep your lines and talk light, innocent, and casual. The trick in a street pickup is to drop her raised guard. This is done by you conveying a relaxed, casual, innocent vibe. You also want to introduce yourself and exactly what you want as soon as you're in so you're no longer a stranger to her. No canned pickup lines in street pick ups under any conditions!

A busy woman on the road has someplace to go so you need to be bold and quick. Do not her, your eye contact and waving ought to be bold enough to convince her to stop. From there, you know exactly what to do. Flirt, compliment, engage. Make her co curious about you that she wants to know even more.

Do not get too flirty too quick, keep in mind that you just met on the street and you don't even know if she's single, however if her body language is exclaiming "yes," go ahead and ask for a chance to see her again. Stopping someone on the street is a little weird if you don't handle yourself properly. The trick is getting her attention and then letting her know how innocent and honest and innocent your intentions are.




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