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Tuesday, 27 August 2013

Communication Skills: Avoiding The Awkward Silence

By J. Ryu


You manage to finally approach a pretty girl. Utilizing your spectacular communication abilities, you start up a conversation without getting slapped or laughed away. The conversation with this girl is going terrific. She's smiling, giggling, clearly becoming more interested and more attracted as the conversation rolls along.

Then...it happens. Call it a brain fart, a blank mind, a loss for words. The only thing that matters is, it brings the conversation to a complete halt and you can feel her attraction levels for you dropping faster than your ego. She looks at you expectantly, then disappointedly, then disinterestedly, then dismissively. Game over.

So what exactly can you do to pull the conversational free fall back into the high flying interaction it was? You dig into your toolbox. Your interaction skills toolbox. You are about to learn one of the absolute best conversation-saving tools available. This is a guaranteed method to save any conversation with a woman, PLUS it's so flawlessly constructed, that it easily allows for sexual innuendo to obtain her mind "in the right place" while still masquerading as pure, non-desperate and fun banter.

It's a little game I like to call "SMK" and it will be your new best friend. When you deploy the SMK game, any drooping conversation will instantly be turned around. You will leap beyond the average dork that approaches her with the same old boring pickup lines and dull conversations.

When you start to run out of things to say, when her attraction is beginning to dipping down ... You turn to her, and you say: "Hey, let's play a game real fast." Her eyes will shimmer with curiosity. This is definitely a departure from the normal night-time drivel she's accustomed to dealing with. She will almost definitely welcome you to continue.

Onwards the game. Start to glance around the area, assessing the other guys you see and begin to point them out individually, and ask her "ok, so would you sleep with, marry, or kill him?" She'll laugh at first. Then she'll evaluate your target and size him up. Choose different kinds of men representing the spectrum of character styles and stereotypes. A jock. A gangster. A nerd. A good-looking guy. A musician. A business man.

This will have several effects:

1) You will get an insight into what she values in a man, and how she operates. She will give very direct clues to how she wants to be seduced. If she says "fuck" to the musician, "marry" to the nerdy guy, and "kill" to the guy in a suit...then you can guess that she's got a wild side, she doesn't like guys with a lot of structure, and she's a secret nerd. Think about that... she'll basically be giving you a HUGE hint into how to seduce her.

2) Continue to banter and tease her. This is so essential to the first phase of the interaction . Keep conversation light, non-needy, witty and fun! Make funny and crazy projections about who you suspect she'd sleep with, marry and kill. It will be incredibly easy as she's varying in between giggling at her own weird tastes, flinching at the dopey guys, and switching over to her "ooh la la" voice with the men that turn her on.

3) Which brings me to my next point...SHE WILL GET TURNED ON. Remember, you are asking her to bring the thought "who do I want to fuck?" into her mind, and all in the context of an experience that was generated by and shared with you...and only you.

4) Finally ... she will see that you are 100 % confident in your sexuality and your ability to bring in women. You can confidently talk about the theoretical idea of her sleeping with various other men, and that does not threaten you. 99.99% of guys would be intimidated to even imply that she even check out another man while he's speaking with her! Your confidence here will be really sexy to girls.

After playing this game for even a few minutes, she will be very turned on by your imagination, your playfulness, and your self-confidence ... This sets you up PERFECTLY to go into the next stage of interaction, which builds on the sexual energy built upon in this game, especially if you've been appropriately blending in the right "sexual triggers" that all girls have.




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