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Thursday 26 July 2018

Trustworthy Environment In Fruitful Relationships

By Jeffrey Jones


Departing after wedding being in relationship for several years is the most unpleasant thing in existence. There are many reasons behind this. When marriages are arranged by parents we tend to choose a life partner who we do not love. This results in quarrel and disagreement at later stage. Marriage therapist has conducted extensive research to predict divorce warning signs.

In certain marriages people might stay together for a longer time. During this period couples come to know each other in a detailed manner. Both sides experience good and bad side of each other. Slowly this converts to misunderstanding, unattractiveness, quarrels and litigations which finally lead to divorce.

Countries which have arranged marriage in practice the divorce rate is low because the family and society come together to solve the problem. Modernization is one among many reasons for separation. Due to this more freedom and money is available with people to ignore others sentiments and values.

Violence is not a social behavior. This is a psychological problem. Showing aggression against our loved ones does not bring peace or try to solve the issue. This actually makes matter worst. A decision taken in anger is never appropriate. A couple should openly communicate to each other for any disagreement which will help in improving the relationship. Reasons are many, why couples choose to separate is the changes in life like redundancy, retirement, bereavement, abandoning of one partner, children leaving home, violence, sexual abuse etc.

Violence in families creates criminal tendencies in children, which can affect them in afterward. This also encourage anger, disobedience, fear, not studying, suicides, sexual abusing of friends, which later can take them to prison. Depression, anxiety and other mental stress or disorders are part and parcel of impact of violence and divorce in families.

Unemployment plays a big role in divorce. A huge challenge a relationship can face is one of the partners losing their job. This creates humiliation, frustration, fear, and despair among the couples. This can put marriages under tremendous strain. May be for the first three months things would go without any serious issues and after that if any one of them is not able to find a job things go wrong in the family.

Couples married at younger age can come in the prospective divorce list. People who have wedded early might think that exposure or experience received by them compared to others is less and want different things now. Even coping up with children at young age makes them irritable and tensed.

Divorce proceedings in court are a tedious activity. When a husband and wife mutually concur for a separation it will be easily accepted by the court with mutual consent. Cost is not involved when both parties agree for getting departed. Child expenses can be shared between the parents based on the discussions. The counselors help the partners by giving motivation to start a new journey.

When couples experience warning signs in their life it is important that necessary steps be taken to save their relationship. Couples who find it unable to sort their issues should try to get assistance from third parties or their friends or other family members or even social counselors as a last resort.




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