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Monday, 9 July 2018

Grieving And Using A Rabbi Funeral

By William Stewart


It is never easy losing someone close in life especially if a friend or family member. A Rabbi funeral is there to assist with questions one may have and as well, to officiate the service in the correct way. The sooner the burial is underway the better it is for all as prolonging it tends to make one feel more depressed and sad about the whole matter.

This is why Jews bury their dead very quickly so as not to cause more anguish than necessary to those left behind. Sometimes delays do happen especially should family members and close friends having to fly in for the ceremony. It is best to consult a Rabbi should this be the case so that he can advise on what is permissible in Jewish Law and what is not.

This is the crux of Judaism in that mitzvot need to be done in this world in order gain a closer relationship with the Creator. It is about separating the holy from the unholy or elevating the mundane for that matter to higher end. This is why religious Jews say blessings for almost about anything and this is also the reason why these are said before partaking of any food.

Apart from this one is encouraged to eat and to carry on living as normally as possible. Some foods consumed are bagels and eggs. It is believed that the body has reached the end of its journey and only the shell remains that is committed to the ground. Judaism believes that life on this earth has a plan and this is reviewed in the world to come to see what good the person did and what he or she did not.

People who have NDE or near death experience can attest to this fact and it is comforting to know that life on this earth does have meaning and is not just a coincidental accident. This is why it is so important to do good by helping others and animals alike. This is probably what the purpose of life is, to enjoy it, share it and live it in the best way possible.

For those left behind it is not so simple as one finds oneself lost without that other person in their lives. Death is never an easy thing and it is a painful one at that but being as it may a fact of life, one must give oneself the care and attention to grieve in a meaningful way. The Jewish faith understands that it is difficult and continuing with normal life after the fact is not so easy.

A person must allow time to grieve. Rather than believe everything is okay one should be kind to oneself and allow one to feel the loss. It is best to talk about it and this is especially so for younger children.

It is not an easy time. Keeping to tradition does help. For any queries or questions, a funeral Rabbi should be consulted.




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