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Monday 19 May 2014

After College Meet Is Difficult

By Minnie Whitley


People in college find it easier than normal to get a date. It is interesting to note how things become different immediately one gets out of college. After college meet is not easy to identify. Again the number of men and women that one comes across daily are few. When one is working they spend most of their time with workmates and close people they live with.

It is easy for one in college to find their love because they have several people to choose from. Again the school environment is conducive for meeting different people. Every time you go to the dining hall, attend a flat party, to the library or football games you come across new people. This kind of environment makes one have a variety of he can choose from.

Immediately one leaves school things change completely. They have to adjust to spending most of their times at home and work place. While college life was built around various activities such as clubs, study sessions, sports and social meetings. After college your life now has to revolve around work and your home.

The transition after college can be depressing for some people. It can be difficult to adapt to work home rat race. One wakes up, they go to job, in the evening they go home, take their supper, then go to bed. They have to repeat the same routine the following day. This kind of a lifestyle means that you rarely have time to meet women and whenever one does the options are limited. This is due to the fact that pool of women they choose from is limited from those they meet at work place and close neighbors.

As people get older they begin to realize that meeting someone they like is far more difficult. Many especially those approaching thirties are caught up in this scenario. It has become increasing impossible to identify someone they can stand let alone love. Many that have tried dating have college say that the few men and women they come across have horrible taste, imprudent ideas and shitty qualities that they can stand.

The sad truth is that most of people we see single never envisioned being alone. If they were to be honest they are not happy. This is because the most exciting and happy moments of a human beings are when they find their love. It is important that we be keen with our lifestyle. No matter how busy we are, work should never rule our lives.

There several strategies that can help one find a date especially if they are too busy to go out and bump into new people. Online dating is the fastest and easiest way to come across new people. It is also important that cultivate the culture of engaging in outdoor activities such as a walk. Most importantly despite how busy you are try set aside some time to pursue your passions such as sports.

Every one you meet after university has a hidden motive. Most of the women want to get married while majority of the men are looking for someone to have fun with. This factor has made it more difficult to understand people and eventually one walks away feeling disappointed.




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