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Thursday, 25 April 2013

WHAT EXACTLY IS ONLINE DATING



The good question is? WHAT EXACTLY IS ONLINE DATING?

Online dating refers to a number of websites that offer services to individuals or groups who wish to meet people online for social or romantic relationships.  You dictate what type of relationship you are looking for which gives you complete control over whom you talk to and who you don’t.

Simply put, an online dating service is basically a community of people who gather together to interact, socialize, and make friends with each other.  Most hope that love will come their way through the site, but at the very least, they want to find a way to date a diverse and unique person they may not have the opportunity to meet in their “real lives”.

There are a myriad of websites that cater to this service and this especially true for seniors.  A quick search on the Internet will reveal an abundance of dating opportunities for those over 50.

The process involved in meeting someone online can vary from site to site.  The basic process for meeting another person online is for an individual to sign on to an online dating site by entering a unique username and password that applies only to that individual.  
Some of these sites are free like: Amolatina, Anastasia, BlackPeopleMeet, EliteFitnessSigles ; others require you to pay a monthly membership fee.  Almost all will give you a free trial period to see if you like the site and what it has to offer.You’re probably going to have a better experience with a site that requires paid membership, but we’ll address that a little later.
Once a person is signed up for the service, they are normally required to create a user profile, which involves filling out an electronic form that asks specific questions.         

These questions can range from geographical details to favorite food to sexual orientation. 

You will also be asked what type of person you want to meet and what qualities you’d like for them to possess.  You can also specify a geographical area you would like them to be from.

A person’s information is then entered into the site’s database, and users have various ways of accessing another user’s profile. 
You may be able to create a personal profile as well that tells others specific details about you.  This can include experiences or memories you might want to share all the way to dreams and goals you want to achieve.  We have a separate section on the best way to create your personal profile so you can receive the best results.

You will also be able to enter a photograph of yourself.
Again, we touch on this later.  
A picture can be a great starting point to meeting that special someone though it’s not the main point.

Users can also search an online dating site for a compatible match, which is determined by technological profiling of the information a user has supplied to the site. 

More commonly, users post photos of themselves on their profile to give others a general idea of their type. 

However, the online aspect of dating services normally requires users to judge one another on their ideas, how they present themselves, and the overall impression they give.         

Physical presence rarely factors in to making a connection with another person on the Internet, and this is no different for online dating. 

Once you have joined a senior dating website, you'll likely be invited to join in chat groups, and you'll be able to search for other members meeting your criteria. You may even be able to fine-tune your criteria to find others meeting your initial criteria and that also share common interests or hobbies. You will be able to chat with a possible match and communicate with them through e-mail.  When you decide to meet in person is all up to you!

Often, there is a sense of anonymity and mystery in meeting people online that is rare in meeting people in reality. Online dating offers an alternative to the norm, and is most likely appealing to those who are unlucky in real life when it comes to meeting romantic prospects. In addition, the common fear of rejection is less intense in an online environment, thereby, making online dating an attractive means of meeting others. 

Online dating is a common and popular service for people to communicate with others, which includes finding love. This has been the most significant shift in American dating culture since the mid-1960s. 

The Internet has offered additional functions that reduced time for people searching for documents. Now, the Internet is not only for searching for information, but for also meeting friends, finding love, and finding people who share the same habits and religious beliefs. Online dating services facilitate these functions. 

The most popular online dating web site is Chocolate.com which is a public company that started up in April 1995. In its 10-year history, more than 60,000 new people register on Chocolate.com every day, and it has grown to more than 15 million members with profiles posted, active users and about one million paying subscribers from more than 246 countries. 

Now, there are numerous online dating web sites on the Internet similar to Chocolate.com.  They cater to all types of individuals and lifestyles and it’s a great way to find someone with common interests.  

For seniors, the growing popularity of online dating services is stellar news!  You can meet people from all over with just the click of your mouse.  There are tons of sites specifically geared toward older people who want to find a date and that’s even better news!
Many people think that online dating services are only for young people, but that couldn’t be further from the truth.

Times have changed and so have relationships. 

Back when the over 50 crowd was at prime dating age, a date consisted of two people meeting somewhere away from home. Dating couples typically went to the local diner or ice cream parlor where they shared a root beer float. The rules of society dictated that dating was to happen in public. 

Today, however, dating has changed. There are still plenty of opportunities to date outside the home, but plenty of relationships have started right on the Internet surrounded by all the comforts of home.

If nothing else, you can take comfort in knowing that there are hundreds and even thousands of single people over age 50 who are interested in dating or creating new friendships, just like you.

Is online dating really for you?  We’re willing to say yes, but let’s look at the pros and cons just to be sure. 

And the Next Question is? SHOULD YOU DATE ONLINE?



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