Dating Women online - Inviting

Quality #8 – Inviting 

 The ladies man loves attention. He loves bringing women (and men) into his own realm.
 He doesn’t follow. He invites.  Here’s a good analogy. In opera, it seems to the audience that the opera singer is sending blasts and blasts of powerful sound waves to them. But a good opera teacher
will tell you that when you’re singing, you should sing like you’re bringing the audience into YOUR world. You don’t try to sing to them. You sing to get them to come to you.

 Dating is the same. Don’t just send your energy to the woman sitting across the table. Instead, use your energy to draw her CLOSER to you. Invite her into your world so that she can be amazed by it!



Quality #9 – Willing To Bounce Back From 

Failure and Do What Others Refuse To Do  The ladies man is persistent. He does not mind rejection. He is strong enough to know that his self-identity should not be defined by a woman’s attitude towards him.
And in order to bounce back from rejection and achieve more success than the average chump, he’s willing to do what others refuse to do.


In this world, the more you do things that "unsuccessful" people refuse to do, the more success YOU
will have as a Smart Dater.
 For example, if the average guy refuses to flirt at all because he lacks the skill and has no motivation to learn, then all you have to do is to flirt A LOT more than he does if you want to get all the girls.  If they refuse to approach women who are beautiful, that's also good news for you. You can approach these
women yourself. (Guess who will get them?)
 If they refuse to expand their social circle, let them sit at home while you go out and meet friends.
 If they refuse to act like a challenge, GOOD FOR YOU! It will be so much easier for you to act like a challenge in front of women because other guys are so "easy".  If they refuse to act sexual, then act sexual and spark chemistry with all the girls they DON'T get.
 Whatever they refuse to do, YOU'll do it yourself, get it?

 The same concept also applies to life as well.  If other people are too lazy to get higher education, then you should go for it so you will stand out.  If other people are too lazy to make sales calls, then just call more people than they do.  If other people are too lazy to "go the extra mile", then just go the extra mile and you'll be the winner. Get it?


But don't forget that this rule works both ways. If successful people are doing things that you refuse to do
because of whatever excuses you have in your mind, then you're in trouble.  Because they are getting the success that you might have gotten for yourself if you had just tried.
 So...ask yourself...
 Compared to the guys that are REALLY great with women...
 Do you flirt as much?
 Do you experiment and fail as much as they do?
 Do you bounce back from failure like they do?
 Do you seek the knowledge to improve your game like they do? (Hint: Do you have my Meet Your Sweet Course?)