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Tuesday, 19 January 2016

Great Ways To Make A Free Coffee Date Implausible

By Diane Gray


Coffee dates have increasingly become memorable moments for many people, who are either dating or in serious relationships. Most spouses refer to coffee dates as initial steps towards their marriage. They may look cheap and quick moments but they have significant effects to the parties concerned. However, below are considerations that add taste to free coffee dates.

A serene venue is a great consideration. You need to thoroughly identify a comfortable coffee joint. Ensure the place you choose is not crowded. A crowded place can be very distracting and it may affect the romantic environment you should have. Lastly, ensure the place has comfortable and adequate seats. Though some people may not consider seating arrangement important, it could make the moment boring. If possible, make an advance visit to assess the place before you take your partner there.

Consider a laid-back appearance to make the date great. Meeting and chatting with your partner as you sip the hot coffee is what you should expect. Be relaxed, avoid any form of pressure and put on your fun date dress. If you intend to go for the date after office, wear a less conservative dress or outfit. A jacket is easy to take off and a shirt you can easily unbutton is a good combination to create a casual appearance.

Keep time. Make it to the venue at least 10 minutes before the agreed time. This will give you time to compose yourself before the date starts. Being late may be interpreted to mean you were not interested with the date. In case of an unavoidable circumstance, it is needful to communicate to your partner on time. This shows you are greatly concerned about the two of you.

Feel free to order what you feel is good for you. If you feel uncomfortable asking your favorite beverages in front of your partner, you should not worry. It is not what you order that matters but how you order. Ordering a beverage using a commanding tone will make you look either rude or a high-maintenance person. Sipping the beverage of your partner and nodding yes with a smile will make the waiter know you want a similar beverage.

What other people in the same meeting place are doing should not divert your attention towards the main theme. Do not set your eyes on the affairs of other people in there, but look the eyes of your partner straight when asking them something or responding to questions. This will not only show how you are confident, but also how keen and attentive you are.

In case you get to the venue and find it occupied to capacity, avoid being annoyed or expressing anger. Remain calm and rational, and wait for the attendants to organize a different space for you. If the weather is favorable, you can opt to buy take-a-way snacks or beverages and enjoy them on the way or look for an outdoor bench. Canceling the date in such a circumstance will not be a wise thing to do.

Finally, suggesting another hang out and setting the date would wrap it all. This would be possible if both of you were happy with the whole experience. If you did not like the place or their services, suggest options for the next meeting. Doing so will make your next outing even more fun.




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