What a mess.
The past at times can be this horrible places that rips apart our ability to live in the present. When our past has been left to wreck havoc on our lives, we live in a an abundance of pain and fall victim to things that are now completely out of our control.
The biggest danger of an upsetting past is when you allow it to define who you are in this moment and who you will become in the future. When this happens, you have birthed a creature that can truly define the rest of your life.
What can you really do to move on from the past?
The one thing you can do that starts the healing process is decide to clean everything up. Clean up the fights you've had with others, the broken relationships, the mistakes you've made, the failures you are responsible for and everything else that has a negative touch to it. Clean it all up. While it's not easy to do this, being able to lay past events to rest is one of the most important factors in being able to live in the present moment.
But there's something else about coming back to this moment that is even more important. The past can also be a place where we want to go back to because things seemed so much better back then. But that moment is gone. It's forever gone. The people who were in your life, the memories, the things you did are all behind you. You can really never go back. All you can do is create a new life for yourself now.
While it can be incredibly difficult to do all of this, you have to. You have to if you really want to start to see what is possible for you. Honestly, it's the only way to get yourself back into a place where you can begin to create the life you've always wanted to live.
Take a chance. Take a risk. Be courageous and go back into the past in order to create a better future for yourself tomorrow.
This moment is all you have.
The past at times can be this horrible places that rips apart our ability to live in the present. When our past has been left to wreck havoc on our lives, we live in a an abundance of pain and fall victim to things that are now completely out of our control.
The biggest danger of an upsetting past is when you allow it to define who you are in this moment and who you will become in the future. When this happens, you have birthed a creature that can truly define the rest of your life.
What can you really do to move on from the past?
The one thing you can do that starts the healing process is decide to clean everything up. Clean up the fights you've had with others, the broken relationships, the mistakes you've made, the failures you are responsible for and everything else that has a negative touch to it. Clean it all up. While it's not easy to do this, being able to lay past events to rest is one of the most important factors in being able to live in the present moment.
But there's something else about coming back to this moment that is even more important. The past can also be a place where we want to go back to because things seemed so much better back then. But that moment is gone. It's forever gone. The people who were in your life, the memories, the things you did are all behind you. You can really never go back. All you can do is create a new life for yourself now.
While it can be incredibly difficult to do all of this, you have to. You have to if you really want to start to see what is possible for you. Honestly, it's the only way to get yourself back into a place where you can begin to create the life you've always wanted to live.
Take a chance. Take a risk. Be courageous and go back into the past in order to create a better future for yourself tomorrow.
This moment is all you have.
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