End your search for your other half.
What?!
That may sound absolutely paradoxical to anything you've heard before, however searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you aren't a whole person in the first place. It implies, that you don't have everything inside of you already that you need to live a very happy life. Isn't life about truly realizing ourselves and who we are deep inside?
As an alternative, look for the person who will be your teammate.
Look for someone who can be your support system, who wants you to be better for yourself, who will improve upon themselves daily, who will be there for you when your life starts to get rocky and who will come to you for love and support. If you look for someone who will be your partner in crime, not your missing piece, you will develop a much stronger relationship.
Stop searching for your missing piece.
The one and only one guarantee about this life is that things are going to change. Even the best relationships in the world are going to end and you are going to have to go on living your life. You will have to rise up to the challenges that losing loved ones bring you and be ready to continue on your path even though you may be grieving. This is a reality of life and it will never change. When you are a whole person, you can feel and hurt deeply and continue being yourself.
When you can work on yourself in life and find somebody who will do the same, then you can meet together as two complete lovers who appreciate and cherish each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are incomplete without someone there? Doesn't this open you up to major amounts of growth and the power to reach your full potential?
Find your teammate, you'll be much better off. When you do, your relationship will bloom.
What?!
That may sound absolutely paradoxical to anything you've heard before, however searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you aren't a whole person in the first place. It implies, that you don't have everything inside of you already that you need to live a very happy life. Isn't life about truly realizing ourselves and who we are deep inside?
As an alternative, look for the person who will be your teammate.
Look for someone who can be your support system, who wants you to be better for yourself, who will improve upon themselves daily, who will be there for you when your life starts to get rocky and who will come to you for love and support. If you look for someone who will be your partner in crime, not your missing piece, you will develop a much stronger relationship.
Stop searching for your missing piece.
The one and only one guarantee about this life is that things are going to change. Even the best relationships in the world are going to end and you are going to have to go on living your life. You will have to rise up to the challenges that losing loved ones bring you and be ready to continue on your path even though you may be grieving. This is a reality of life and it will never change. When you are a whole person, you can feel and hurt deeply and continue being yourself.
When you can work on yourself in life and find somebody who will do the same, then you can meet together as two complete lovers who appreciate and cherish each other. Isn't this a far better way of going through life than thinking you are incomplete without someone there? Doesn't this open you up to major amounts of growth and the power to reach your full potential?
Find your teammate, you'll be much better off. When you do, your relationship will bloom.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about this daily journey of life. Dive into these Life Changing Quotes to inspire you to live your best life. Also, if you have a chance, check out these Strong Women Quotes to find that perfect teammate.
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