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Saturday, 15 March 2014

The Occurrence Of Male Wives

By Gwen Lowe


Reversal of gender roles in todays world is one of the most common phenomena in the society. Although it raises eyebrows, the occurrence of male wives and female husbands is more prevalent in the society than anyone would care to accept. This is a case where the husband takes the roles of the wife in a marriage while the wife takes all the roles of the husband including being the sole bread winner.

What is happening nowadays is that the hubbies are assume their partners characters in the union. Similarly, there are women who are becoming like the men in their households. They will leave their husbands to take care of the home as they go looking for the family bread. This change is also manifesting in the career world where the women are gaining power over all the obstacles that men used to put up for them.

These empowered women who are having great authority become somehow a threat to the mens authority in the home setting. If they are not at a position to separate their work powers with the family responsibilities, the men are forced to take up their roles. These men will stay at home, do the washing, feed the children and cook for the family.

For some men, they will do this as a way of showing love to their mates. Rather than an expression of weakness, they mean to show how much they care. It is also a way of taking a break from the fatiguing role and just chill in the house as the woman makes the ends meet.

Women who have a dominant personality will also most likely find themselves in this kind of situation. This is because they will argue until they get what they want and so for the relationship to work, the man steps down and let them do whatever they want. They may be confused by this turn of events, but the truth is they have created it themselves.

For some, they say love is the reason they give control to their ladies. Such husbands are so ready to leave every decision to be made by their loved ones for the sake of happiness in that house. They will even go ahead to do the household chores that the women used to do.

These men will go as far as dressing as women in the home setting and even wearing makeup. It is not abnormal, and these men should not be deemed as gay because they are not necessarily so. They just love playing the role of the wife in a marriage, and this should be understandable. This is why they have their own support network in order to share experiences.

The men who have a big ego may despise these males for such ways of conducting themselves. Others will see them as not being worthy to be called full men. What they forget is that a man is a man enough if he does what he needs to do to keep his marriage and family happy.




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