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Saturday 1 March 2014

The Impending Issue Of Male Wives

By Leticia Jensen


There have been great changes in gender roles that the society upholds in the recent years. There have been new trends that results because of changing times and the way people look at themselves. A good example is the emergence of male wives. Today, gay people are marrying with one partner taking up the role of a woman, while in some cases, a man and wife exchange the roles with the husband seen as a wife.

This idea of reversing roles has and is being practiced in the whole world and the people have come to terms with them. Apparently several communities have embraced this idea, and now the woman is left to make some crucial decisions concerning the family, as though she is the head. On the other end the man makes himself busy with the house hold chores such as cooking, washing and dusting, taking care of the children and all the other activities performed by women.

The perception of many that the men are the superior beings still holds. The reversing of roles may mean may be due to, probably, a way of a husband expressing their love to the wife. It also shows that they are concerned with their well being, and hence sharing in their duties. It is also perceived as a way of adoring the wife and assuring them that their love for them still exists, and it feels quite good with the women.

When this arrangement is taking place, many women will feel confused when they realize that men are allowing them to take charge of the relationships. However, a lady who has a personality to dominate will always know this is coming. When this happens, both partners should know and understand the peoples roles, so that respect remains.

In some instances, men who are victims to such are likely to get moody as they advance in age. This may happen because these men will be sensitive to things around them and as a result develop the moody attitude. In case of intimidation they will be driven by the feminism in them and end up letting them take the leadership roles.

The roles revolution is a complex topic. Before one decides to be involved, they should do a thorough research and be clear on their intentions of accepting it. Running the entire home and family especially where kids are involved can be hectic and annoying. These new experiences may frustrate the men taking up women roles. They will need to seek advice on how to go about it.

There are several guides and resources that help men become better when playing these roles. The suggestions given are unique in their own ways, but can turn out to be very difficult when put into action. For such an arrangement to work well, the communication channel must continue to be established within the family. Remember taking new roles need some insights. To be able to understand the different roles played, use internet resources that give tips and guidance on how to be successful.

It is usually advisable that the men network quite often. This way they are likely to encounter other men going through the same, and they could share insights and help one another, and eventually become outstanding in this field.




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