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Saturday 7 May 2016

Effects Of Custom On Arab Dating

By Rebecca Bell


After puberty people start developing some different attraction towards an opposite gender. This makes one to get attached and start liking another person. This makes people to get committed into relationships. However being that no oath is taken many people do not take it seriously . Influence of culture on Arab dating is great. Their tradition does not allow this kind of relationship before marriage.

Faith is a building block of this community . Many of them follows Islamic beliefs . This restricts any form of relationship between male and female. But if it is a modest relationship no conflicts arise. This is mainly done to make people avoid adulterous relationships.

One can get a partner in two ways . One is by suggestion from parents. This does not mean they have to marry a suggested spouse . If they do not like the partner chosen for them they reject such suggestions . Another way is by meeting someone you like and you ask for their hand in NIKHA which is marriage . After this agreement they both inform parents about their decision . This is done so as to ask for blessings.

During these meeting some parents disagree about their relationship due to various reasons which they mention . That means they will not get any blessing. When that happens it is hard to proceed with a NIKHA . If parents do not have any objection they settle on dowry issues. When that is done they start planning for a NIKHA which is a wedding ceremony that takes three days.

Marriage is done as soon as possible . This is to decreases chances of one sinning . Their ceremony takes three days and nights . These is done in two separates rooms . Males gather in one room inside a mosque while females gather at another place. This is done as per Islamic beliefs. In Islam marriage is a religious ceremony that needs respect. The NIKHA should not have music being plaid. This is because music is HARAM in Islam.

Islam encourages simplicity and humbleness. These are why such ceremonies are made small and facilitated in a cheap way. Other rules of Islam apply in this occasions . Music is not used and people must dressing n Islamic way. All that is done because marriage is a holly institution and weddings are service of worship.

Marriage is adored by many people . Everybody in these culture dreams of marrying. This is why people do not build such kind of relationships before marriage. If a girl is involved in such a relationship she might lose her virginity before marriage. When that happens she is likely to miss someone who can marry her.

Mainly people who engage in sex before marriage get punished. This also happens to rapist and partners who cheat. They are stoned to death if four people confess against them as witnesses. Such punishment acts as an example to other people. That is why people respect relationships and treasure their partners. Many people also respect each others partner.




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