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Sunday 22 December 2013

The Growing Acceptance Of Male Wives In Modern Society

By Harriett Crosby


Reversing gender roles is one of the things that elicited negative reactions from people but this has changed. Many people now support the idea of husbands being female and wives being male. Those who decide to become male wives let their female partners assume authority and make major decisions in the home. In return, they take on the role of wives so that they can live together in harmony.

Although most men display a strong, masculine outward appearance, some of them secretly wish to let their wives become the dominant partners in their marital relationships. This is their way of expressing their love to their spouses. They may also do this to let their spouses know that they adore and trust them.

When some females first realize that their husbands are letting them be the dominant partner in their relationships, they may get confused especially if they have a submissive personality. However, women who have a dominant personality may expect this to happen and they embrace it right away. When this happens, both partners should realize their roles in the relationship and respect them.

As women become competitive in their workplaces and institutions of higher learning, they are taking on more responsibility at work as they become heads of departments, managers and chief executives among other positions. This type of empowerment also applies to their personal relationships. Women are able to take charge of their relationships in a more mature way than males who tend to become moody especially when they grow older.

Males who take on the role of being wives have to take on the responsibilities that women have as a wife. Their wives take on the responsibilities that traditionally belong to husbands such as being the main income earners in a household. In order to be productive, men in such a position should know where they need to concentrate their efforts. They can use the suggestions their spouses give them.

A man taking up the role of a wife ought to have thorough knowledge about taking care of the family as this may be a new experience. To know what is expected from them, men need to have an open and frank discussion with their female partners. Free communication with their wives can also give men insight on how to move from one role to the other smoothly in a loving and sensitive manner.

To be able to balance family and personal needs and to ensure that a home remains functional, males who take on the role of wives should be involved in a great way in the lives of their families. They should also allocate some personal time away from their responsibilities. This works to create a sense of balance, wellness and helping men remain productive in completing their obligations.

It is also important for male wives to interact socially with other men who are in the same position. In this way, they can create friendships, become more proficient with completing daily responsibilities and share ideas. They can also become members of online and local support groups. Married people who reverse their gender roles do this to empower themselves and society should respect their choice.




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