The early days in a relationship with a girl that you really like can be nerve wracking. Everything is perfect at this point but you worry that you're going to blow it. You worry that you're not moving fast enough or that you're moving too fast. You are really enjoying spending time with her but you know that it could all be over if you don't play your cards right. Nothing is set in stone and while you might feel that she's attracted to you and also enjoying spending time together, you want to do everything in your power to ensure that she stays attracted to you. This relationship is important to you.
Before you blow a fuse, relax. Everything is fine. Both of you are getting to know each other and you're enjoying spending time together. Even though you might be tempted to confront the question of where everything is heading by bringing the subject up, avoid this temptation at all cost. At this point, that question is on both of your minds but the first one to utter the words loses. A woman, in particular, will find you to be weak or needy if you start asking such questions. Simply be happy with how things are going and before too long you'll have your answer without even having to ask the question. It's somewhat like a staring match and the first one to blink loses.
Secondly, try to be yourself as much as possible. Don't lie or tell her things to try to impress her. Keep the focus on her. This is the getting to know you phase so get to know her. What do you want to know about her? Spend some time thinking about this instead of worrying about when you're supposed to kiss her of if she wants you to kiss her. Everybody loves to talk about themselves so the more interest you show in her the more she is going to like you. And when that moment comes to kiss her, you're going to know.
Third, any time you feel yourself becoming nervous, needy or freaking out, remove yourself from the situation for a few minutes so you can get your bearings. Go to the bathroom or step outside for a couple of minutes. Breathe deep and tell yourself that you can handle this. She likes you and is showing interest in you. You like her so show her that you're genuine and that you have the best intentions. Nobody is going to steal her away from you during those five minutes and if you're worrying about that then you need to check your jealousy at the door also.
It can be difficult dating an attractive woman that you really care about. Dating ugly women who are no fun to be around can be equally stressful but in a different way. Be happy that you have finally found someone nice and understand that this is all a part of the dance called romance. Give her the romantic adventure that she will remember for the rest of her life. There will always be time a year or two from now to tell each other what was going through your minds during these first days of dating but you have to remain cool and calm to get to that day. Enjoy dating the woman of your dreams and be glad that you finally found her.
Before you blow a fuse, relax. Everything is fine. Both of you are getting to know each other and you're enjoying spending time together. Even though you might be tempted to confront the question of where everything is heading by bringing the subject up, avoid this temptation at all cost. At this point, that question is on both of your minds but the first one to utter the words loses. A woman, in particular, will find you to be weak or needy if you start asking such questions. Simply be happy with how things are going and before too long you'll have your answer without even having to ask the question. It's somewhat like a staring match and the first one to blink loses.
Secondly, try to be yourself as much as possible. Don't lie or tell her things to try to impress her. Keep the focus on her. This is the getting to know you phase so get to know her. What do you want to know about her? Spend some time thinking about this instead of worrying about when you're supposed to kiss her of if she wants you to kiss her. Everybody loves to talk about themselves so the more interest you show in her the more she is going to like you. And when that moment comes to kiss her, you're going to know.
Third, any time you feel yourself becoming nervous, needy or freaking out, remove yourself from the situation for a few minutes so you can get your bearings. Go to the bathroom or step outside for a couple of minutes. Breathe deep and tell yourself that you can handle this. She likes you and is showing interest in you. You like her so show her that you're genuine and that you have the best intentions. Nobody is going to steal her away from you during those five minutes and if you're worrying about that then you need to check your jealousy at the door also.
It can be difficult dating an attractive woman that you really care about. Dating ugly women who are no fun to be around can be equally stressful but in a different way. Be happy that you have finally found someone nice and understand that this is all a part of the dance called romance. Give her the romantic adventure that she will remember for the rest of her life. There will always be time a year or two from now to tell each other what was going through your minds during these first days of dating but you have to remain cool and calm to get to that day. Enjoy dating the woman of your dreams and be glad that you finally found her.
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