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Friday, 7 July 2017

How A Muslim Matchmaking Service Can Benefit The Women

By Kenneth Patterson


Most adults who have attempted to traverse the world of online dating wind up seriously disappointed. Not only are many of the female profiles fake, but a great many of the males who actively pursue women in this way are already married or partnered. It might seem impossible to many of us, but some young women are actually benefiting from an online Muslim matchmaking service.

In the religion of Islam, marriage is held as a cornerstone of all civilization. As such, these sites are not the usual experiments in hook-ups or even casual dating that most of us are familiar with. Marriage is always the anticipated outcome when these people meet up.

Most of the world views Islam with some distrust, and for this reason it is very difficult for those living in Western nations to meet others of their faith. Traditionally, families have taken an active role in attempting to match their children with potential mates. This can be both embarrassing and stressful for everyone involved.

It does seem that these websites have created an oasis in this online world. This is a method for people to communicate with other followers of Islam without it having to be known by their entire family. Not only that, but it allows Islamic women an opportunity to make real choices about who they spend their time with.

Unfortunately, the parents and grandparents are still very skeptical about the online method of meeting people. There are certainly dangers inherent to such a meeting, and both women and men are taking a risk. The truth is that when people meet online they do not truly know who they are speaking to.

With more recent additions to the services available, such as video chatting, the dangers associated with meeting new people online are somewhat abated. It has allowed women and men to vet one another in a face-to-face manner, without divulging too much personal information. This can help people decide whom they would most want to make that face to face connection with, without committing so much as their true identity.

Followers of Islam in Western countries have found these websites are sometimes the only method available for meeting others without family involvement. The same is true to a lesser extent of Jewish families, who often require their children to marry within their faith. Having sites that specialize in a certain group of people has shown much greater promise than simply searching for those of a particular religion on traditional sites.

In a society where women have few opportunities to really choose for themselves, such sites allow them to have a say in whom they might marry. Many Islamic women have never even given much thought to the sort of man they might prefer. However, such services allow these women a vote in how their own lives turn out, and increases their chances at happiness.




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