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Saturday 22 October 2016

Understanding How To Find Your Soulmate

By Kimberly Wagner


Soulmates can provide one with a lot of happiness, joy and rewards in life. Knowing how to find your soulmate is a technique that not a lot of people know about. In fact, many folks simply give up because they are not able to find the right person who is able to make them happy and give them what they want. They may even settle for someone who is not right for them.

One must realize that it is the negative feelings in life that bring you down. This is what makes you give up on that one perfect person. It is important to stay focused and realize that often a soulmate will come into your life at a later stage when you are older. It is worth waiting for a person like this. However, you need to stay positive and learn to accept yourself as well.

The positive energies you create are also very important because when you become negative it can really alter your mood. Some people find their soulmate very quickly, and others will take more time. There are certain reasons for this. Sometimes it is simply the law of attractions that come into play, and it is important not to give up because this is when negative energy creeps up.

The first thing that you need to work on are these feelings of self compassion and love. You need to be able to love and respect yourself first of all. It can take time when you are constantly criticizing and judging yourself. Sometimes, you may need to go through a process or program where you learn to increase these levels of confidence.

Negative energy can set in when you are not positive about yourself. This often relates to your level of self esteem and confidence. Someone without a high level confidence does not fully love themselves. When you don't have compassion for yourself, it is not easy to draw others to yourself. You need to be able to work on these feelings before anything else.

Jealousy is a huge obstacle in someone's life when they are trying to attract someone special. You may have friends who have soulmates and this can make you jealous. However, instead of comparing yourself to others, it is important to work on your own life. By comparing yourself to other people, you are just going to bring yourself down.

Although it can be exciting meeting up with a soulmate, one should not be stressed, focusing completely on the time when you come face to face with this person. It is important to dream and imagine what will happen in the future, but one must also live in the present. It is important to enjoy your time with your friends as well, otherwise you get so wrapped up in meeting your soulmate.

The funny thing about negative beliefs, is that they have the power to come true. If you say to yourself that you are never going to find the perfect person or you are not going to find someone because you don't have the right sort of personality, those beliefs may come true. This is why a positive nature is so important.




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