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Friday, 5 June 2015

Oh To Love, How Rare That Truly Is

By Evan Sanders


Oh to truly love, how rare that really is. The things we love in this world last only so long. Yes, it may only be 5 minutes, 5 years, or a complete lifetime, but in the final analysis we eventually part. How lucky we are to have something so wonderful at one point in time that makes the ending of the journey so hard. But for those who love unconditionally...for people who love with their whole heart and understand that we're all sentenced to an end, we stay present with the people we love. We make that moment last as long as we can because who truly knows when those moments will be no more in our lives. Our love is the thing that miracles are made of. Our love is the thing that can truly and authentically change the planet . We see people near us all the time fall in love with something they really enjoy, and the world changes around them. We see people who fall head over heels in love with a person, and their energy, the two of them together as a unit creates something that other people see and feel.

Love transcends.

Love is a type of energy that cannot be explained.

Words are no match for it. Even if the best of words are utilized in the most stylish way, only a scratch is made on really describing what love is. This explains why our hearts literally break when love crashes and burns. Recovery appears as distant cousin. We enter into a real state of loss because the person we were with were truly was our other set of eyes, hands and legs.

Our friends, our work, our relations, all can be deeply loved. Not juvenile "love" but I am really talking about the sort of honest, deep and incredibly vulnerable love, where you haven't any fear in your consciousness about telling that person the worst about yourself, the darkest worries you have kept secret, because in the end... you know that love rises above all. You give someone the tools to absolutely destroy you down to your core, and you trust them with everything inside you not to.

Love however, could be a fleeting thing.

And that's how it is meant to be. As human beings, we try to hang onto the nice stuff as much as we can, but sometimes the good just runs out and the balance of life takes a dip from what we had. We are supposed to be brought down, so we will be able to, in truth rise again. From the beginning, I have always thought the person I truly fell deeply and madly in love with, my soulmate, would not just be the one that would be on the up and up with me, but the person that would support me and even help me walk through those dips in life.

The love that I have felt during the past has been glorious, life changing, phenomenal, and yet at all the same time passing. Things occur, things change, and as the years have gone by, I've found many more methods to appreciate what I had versus what I lost. I think that has been a major turning point for me. My soul opens like a blooming flower each time I give myself the chance to experience life. The good and the bad. The power of a strong redwood is built into my core and flowers of experience, fervour, and knowledge bloom through my soul.

We are meant to experience the stuff we do on the journeys we fervently choose.

Keep hold of what you can while you have it and deeply love those around you. Cold and hard hearts are for the feeble. That is only fear chatting. That's fear trying to defend the one thing you know that would really make you exposed. Overt and outspoken strength really isn't strength remotely. It's weakness trying to convince an audience that it's something else.

Vulnerability and a delicate heart is true strength. The trail lets you confront even your worst fears with eagerness and spirit.

Love intensely.

Love passionately.

Love vulnerably.

Love with no fear.




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